Tahoe & Hawaii - The Real Cost of Living in Paradise as a Local

Shay Phillips
Jun 16
6 min read

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Lake Tahoe is one of the most breathtaking places in the world. So is Hawaii. But what happens when the people who make these destinations so special can no longer afford to live there? That is the question at the heart of a recent conversation on the Reno-Tahoe Real Estate Insider podcast featuring Jena Lanini, a Coldwell Banker real estate agent born and raised in the Lake Tahoe area, now based in Reno and working across both the Reno and Lake Tahoe markets.

What followed was one of the more honest and wide ranging conversations we have had on the show, covering workforce housing, short term rental regulations, the real drivers of home prices, and what it actually takes to build a sustainable life in a vacation destination economy.

Born and Raised in Tahoe, Priced Into Reno

Jena's story starts where a lot of locals' stories do. She grew up in the Lake Tahoe area, went to college in San Francisco, and came back to manage a restaurant and build a life in the community she had always called home. But opportunity and affordability eventually pointed her toward Reno.

At the time, Reno offered better job prospects in her field, lower rents, cheaper groceries, lower gas prices, and a cost of living that simply made it easier to get started. It was not that she did not want to be in Tahoe. It was that the math was not working.

That experience gave Jena a firsthand understanding of exactly what the workforce housing conversation is really about. She did not leave because she wanted to. She left because she had to.

The Reality of Living in a Vacation Destination

There is a version of Lake Tahoe and Hawaii that visitors experience, and then there is the version that locals live every day. The euphoric high of seeing the lake or the ocean for the first time is real. But so is the traffic, the crowded grocery stores, the seasonal economy, and the relentless pressure of trying to keep up financially in a place where demand never lets up.

Both Tahoe and Hawaii face the same fundamental challenge. There is a limited supply of land, demand from some of the deepest pockets in the world, and a workforce that is largely paid at rates that do not support living where they work. Hotel workers, restaurant employees, lift operators, and the dozens of other people who make these destinations function are often earning between eighteen and thirty dollars an hour. In most parts of the country, that is a livable wage. In Tahoe or Hawaii, it is not enough to rent an apartment, let alone buy a home.

The result is a workforce that commutes in from elsewhere, or eventually leaves altogether. And as Jena and I discussed, if that workforce disappears, the businesses that depend on them follow. Restaurants close. Hotels struggle to staff. The economy that sustains property values begins to erode. It is a cycle that no one wants to see play out, but one that becomes increasingly difficult to avoid without serious attention to attainable housing.

The Short Term Rental Problem Is More Complicated Than It Looks

One of the most talked about solutions to the housing shortage in places like Tahoe has been regulating or limiting short term rentals. The logic seems straightforward. Fewer vacation rentals means more inventory for long term residents. But as Jena explained, the reality has been far messier.

When South Lake Tahoe and Placer County moved to restrict short term rentals, something unexpected happened. The owners of those properties, many of whom had the financial means to simply leave the units sitting empty, stopped renting them out rather than converting them to long term housing. The anticipated surge in long term rental availability never materialized. Meanwhile, the reduction in tourism traffic hit local businesses hard. Restaurants, lumber yards, painting contractors, and service providers all felt the impact.

Some left town entirely because the economy that had supported them was suddenly gone.

It is a whack-a-mole problem. Solve one piece of it and another challenge surfaces as a direct consequence. There are no easy answers, and anyone who tells you otherwise is probably not looking at the full picture.

Maui County took a different approach following the Lahaina fire, restricting short term rentals largely to hotel zoned areas. Time will tell how that plays out. What is clear is that in places where land is scarce and demand is high, policy decisions around housing and short term rentals carry consequences that ripple through the entire local economy.

What It Actually Takes to Make It Work in Tahoe

If you want to build a long term life in a place like Lake Tahoe, the most important variable is income. Not just income, but income that is not capped by the number of hours you can work.

Trading time for money, whether that means working at a restaurant, running the lifts, or staffing the front desk at a hotel, is an honorable way to live. But it is very unlikely to get you to homeownership in a market like this one. The math simply does not work at most wage levels when a modest condo can cost well over half a million dollars.

The people who tend to build sustainable lives in high cost vacation markets either own a business, work in a commission based profession like real estate or mortgage, or have a remote job that brings in income independent of the local economy. Those paths require a different kind of hustle and a longer runway, but they are the ones that actually open the door to staying long term.

That does not mean everyone needs to become a business owner or a sales professional. There is nothing wrong with living minimally, renting, and enjoying the lifestyle that drew you there in the first place. But if the goal is homeownership and financial stability in a market like Tahoe, the income question has to come first.

Do Realtors Drive Up Home Prices?

It is a question that comes up often, and Jena addressed it directly. The short answer is no.

Realtors facilitate transactions. They do not set the prices buyers are willing to pay. Supply and demand drives pricing in any market, and in a place like Lake Tahoe, demand is not being manufactured by agents talking up listings. It is being driven by ski videos, social media posts, and the very real allure of living in one of the most beautiful places in the country. When someone sees a video of fresh powder on the mountain or a glassy morning on the lake and decides they want to be there, that is what moves the market.

Jena put it plainly. She does not dictate price unless she is the one buying. The buyer's market does. And in a demand driven market like Incline Village or South Lake Tahoe, prices keep going up because people keep wanting to be there and have the means to make it happen.

There are always sellers who want more than the market will bear, and buyers who want to pay less. But ultimately the market finds its level, and no amount of realtor enthusiasm changes what buyers are actually willing and able to spend.

Rethinking the American Dream

One of the more candid threads running through this conversation was the idea that the traditional American dream, buying an affordable home, raising a family on a single income, and watching everything work out, is no longer the reality for most people.

Home affordability in the United States is at its lowest point in modern history. In high cost markets, dual incomes are not optional. The pressure on young people to buy a home early, sometimes before it makes any financial sense, can actually set them back rather than set them up.

The reframe that resonated most from our conversation is this: we live in the greatest time in history to start a business, learn new skills, and build income that is not tied to a physical location. That mobility and access to information is the new American dream. And for people who want to live in extraordinary places like Tahoe or Hawaii, leaning into that mobility may be the most powerful tool available.

Jena was also candid about something not every real estate agent would say out loud: buying a home is not always the right move. For some people, renting makes more financial sense. For some first time buyers in today's market, pouring a minimum down payment into a turnkey property and hoping appreciation does the heavy lifting is not a reliable strategy. A fixer upper purchased with sweat equity, or a business built to increase income, may offer a better path to long term financial health.

The goal is not homeownership for its own sake. The goal is a life that feels worth living, in a place that inspires you, with enough financial stability to actually enjoy it.

A Market Worth Understanding

Jena Lanini brings something rare to the Reno and Lake Tahoe real estate markets. She grew up here. She left when the economics forced her hand. She came back through real estate and now serves clients across both markets with a perspective that is equal parts local knowledge and hard earned honesty.

If you are thinking about buying or selling in the Reno or Lake Tahoe area, or simply trying to understand what it really takes to build a life in one of these markets, Jena is the kind of agent worth talking to.